When Love Becomes a Lifestyle Transaction Many people say they are looking for love. But increasingly, what they are really searching for is a partner who can deliver the lifestyle they have imagined. This is particularly visible among women who are not simply seeking a capable, stable and generous man, but a man whose life …
What Are We Really Looking For in a Partner? There is a phrase that appears constantly in modern dating conversations: “I want my partner to be my best friend.” It sounds romantic, reassuring and perhaps even obvious. After all, who would not want to deeply enjoy the person they choose to build a life with? …
There is a growing disconnect between men and women, and it is becoming increasingly difficult to ignore. Men are frustrated with women. Women are frustrated with men. Both sides feel misunderstood, undervalued and disappointed. The problem is not simply that dating has become harder. The deeper problem is that men and women increasingly enter relationships …
The Discipline of Commitment Modern dating has created a strange contradiction. Many men say they want a loyal, feminine and devoted life partner. Yet when they finally meet a good woman, they struggle to give the relationship the attention required to discover what it could become. The problem is not always fear of commitment. Often, …
There is a difference between a woman with standards and a woman shaped by entitlement. A woman with standards understands her values. She seeks character, consistency, emotional maturity, stability, and shared vision. She does not confuse self-respect with arrogance, nor does she accept inconsistency, immaturity, or a man who lacks direction. That is healthy. Entitlement …
